The Bachelor

ONNN THE WINGS OF LOOOVVVEEEEE......
Up and above the clouds
The only way to fly
Is on the wings of love
On the wings of love
Only the two of us
Together flying HIIIIIGGGHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!

OK so I was off of the Bachelor for awhile.. and I think it was because for the longest time my mom was SO obsessed with it and had all these issues DVR'ing and then I'd have to record it and watch it and then wasn't allowed to talk about it because she hadn't seen the episodes yet! So for clearly good reasoning, haha, I was out of the loop!

Well not sure how it happened, but I'm back in. And this guy is a CHEESE BALL, but secretly cute! But at this point, with 3-4 girls left you KNOW he has to be favoring some more than others! It has to be hard for the girls but also for him as well. What I mean is, I'm sure he has a ton of things he can and can't do in his contract with ABC to keep the show going and the fans watching!! NOT that he has it rough by kissing and grouping a San Fran athletic cutie, a dancer, a swimsuit model, a Florida hoochie mama!

I'm a fan of all the girls, minus Vienna- vomit city! I really like Ali, but last night she through everyone for a loop with her work dilemma! Basically she would lose her job if she stayed on the show! NOW... this has to be so hard, because she is so driven and independent but you could see how much she was into Jake (our bachelor). BUT at the same time, this is a game! And although he kept telling her he didn't want he to leave, he didn't tell her "she was the one". There was NO solid evidence she would be the last one standing. AND on top of everything else... if she quit her job to stay how much pressure does that put on him to pick her (and it's the same awkward, bizarre, scenario when women give men the engagement ultimatum- why would you want someone to marry you because you "forced them to"?!?! Wouldn't you WANT them to WANT to marry you?).

Any-who, last night ends with her leaving the show (in the cutest dress), Jake distraught, but putting on a brave face to tell the ladies they're on their way to the Caribbean! BUT the previews for next week show him having an amazing time, massively making out on the beach and in the water with the luscious ladies (so much that I got second hand embarrassment) and then he gets a call from.... drum roll please... ALI!!!!!!!

So....... does he blow her off or do we think that in the end he KNOWS she is the one and will end up with her?!? Let's be honest.. reality TV is not so "reality" anymore.. ANYTHING is fair game!